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Different Strokes

At one mediation I heard counsel accuse the plaintiffs of lying and engaging in “litigation lottery,” hoping for a big payoff. This mediation was over before it began. At another mediation, counsel for one party repeatedly accused the other party of lying under oath. That mediation resulted in a settlement favorable to the party making the accusation. So, what’s the difference? Should the opening session be conciliatory or adversarial? Like most answers to broad questions, it depends. In the first case, the accusing lawyer was addressing a large group of plaintiffs and attacking their integrity by impugning their motives. What he intended to demonstrate was that there was no factual or legal basis for their case but instead lost any chance of communicating by jumping to a jury argument that he could not possibly prove. In the second instance, the accusation was made through the juxtaposition of the opponent’s deposition

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Decision-Making in the Face of Uncertainty

It is the rare successful mediation that does not lead one party or both to wonder whether they could have gotten more or given up less. What makes mediated settlement conferences so interesting (and difficult) is the need to make important decisions in a confined period of time without knowing what the other side is willing to accept or give up in exchange for peace. If both sides came into the mediation and stated honestly their bottom line from the outset there would be little need for mediation. Obviously this never happens and in most cases I have been involved with the parties do not really know their bottom line themselves at the outset of mediation. How can anyone be expected to figure out the other side if they cannot figure out their own position. Do good negotiators have a natural ability to sense where they can take the other

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